You don’t need to be a profiler to discern the dynamics within the Sussex family, identifying the clear leader and follower. The Duchess consistently exhibits a strong sense of purpose, taking the initiative on various fronts, while Prince Harry occasionally adjusts to align with his wife.
Meghan Markle made it explicitly clear that she expected Prince Harry to fulfill a particular condition, issuing a stern ultimatum even before their wedding. She informed Harry that she would terminate their relationship if he persisted in concealing their romance.
As one insider revealed, “She issued a warning: ‘Unless you issue an official statement confirming our relationship, I will end it.'” This ultimatum left Harry in a state of distress, according to the book “Courtiers: The Hidden Power Behind the Crown” by royal columnist and journalist Valentine Lowe.
Desperate to save their relationship, Prince Harry sought assistance from Jason Knauf, the public relations secretary for Kensington Palace.
He implored Knauf to release a statement officially acknowledging Meghan as his girlfriend, emphasizing Meghan’s insistence on public validation of their commitment due to her perception that the palace was neglecting her defense against media scrutiny.
Despite her comfort in the spotlight, Meghan often expressed confusion about the purpose of her public appearances, interactions, and handshakes with strangers.
According to accounts from multiple staff members, there were instances when she remarked, “I can’t believe I’m not receiving compensation for this,” underscoring her puzzlement about the nature of such royal obligations.